tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8125621727603315294.post7298209803056363042..comments2011-10-12T06:27:56.072-07:00Comments on The Unlonely Project: Interlude: 3:30 a.m.Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17339022031680762090noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8125621727603315294.post-58259079952487241872011-07-20T22:06:52.561-07:002011-07-20T22:06:52.561-07:00I'm glad you're getting something from it....I'm glad you're getting something from it. Its a challenge, but I can definitely feel the progress there. I notice its not just a shift in being more comfortable doing the "steps", but just a feeling of confidence in my day to day life. Its all just less scary, I guess.<br /><br />I hope you're right though. I'm staying optimistic. :)Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17339022031680762090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8125621727603315294.post-81439590990216964602011-07-07T01:33:25.010-07:002011-07-07T01:33:25.010-07:00" What am I doing? How am I 32 years old and ...<i>" What am I doing? How am I 32 years old and still growing up?"</i><br /><br />I don't know if it will be consolation or not, but I still feel like this at 43. Some of me feels kind of like I am "getting it" though, and I have to say it is because I have figured out in part how to be and do things alone more than ever in my life. Yeah, I am still in a relationship, but sometimes you can be alone and have to take care of yourself in a relationship, too. I've been learning that.<br /><br />Being alone must seem like kind of a void at the moment, but I think if you keep going with it, keep sticking to the project, you will find that perhaps it is actually becoming your *preference*. I know, might sound unbelievable! But the more I do alone, the more I find it is becoming my preference. Like it was the way it was meant to be all along.<br /><br />Yes, you are absolutely doing something for more than just yourself in this. It helps to read this & think about how I can continue to challenge myself to be self-reliant and truly independent (or have healthy interdependence instead of the icky-stickiness of co-dependence). I'm really looking forward to seeing how this project transforms you! For I really believe it will...<br /><br />Keep on going it alone! :)Karin B (Looking for Ballast)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03592528618484082434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8125621727603315294.post-76157160082589159982011-07-06T22:07:45.908-07:002011-07-06T22:07:45.908-07:00Thanks for following! Please sign up as a follower...Thanks for following! Please sign up as a follower, or for my email list, and you'll get an email notification everything I post so you can follow my journey. It means a lot to have people following me - you keep me accountable, and make me feel like I might be doing something for more than just myself, you know? Anyway, welcome!Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17339022031680762090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8125621727603315294.post-4089809228987454352011-07-06T10:49:38.689-07:002011-07-06T10:49:38.689-07:00....... Alone is the last place I wanted to be.............. Alone is the last place I wanted to be....-brandi carlile. *good blog. Keep going....*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com